25 Ways to Stay Connected With Grandparents
by Alexis Crowe on 10/24/2019 12:00am
Also see this month's cover story, The Art of Grandparenting
Whether they live just down the street or across the country, it’s important for grandkids to devote time and effort to maintaining and growing a relationship with their grandparents.
If you’re struggling to foster that connection, here are some ways grandkids and grandparents can stay connected and build their bond.
1 | Video chat on a regular schedule. Try setting a bi-weekly Skype or Facetime date |
2 | Send snail mail. Making grandparents pen pals is a fun way to stay in touch |
3 | Pick a project. Having something to work on together is an easy way to bond |
4 | Research family history together |
5 | Teach each other skills. Grandkids can share technology smarts while grandparents can teach a skill such as baking or woodworking |
6 | Maintain family traditions — whether those are weekly dinner or special holiday events |
7 | Implement “no phone time” to encourage kids to put down devices and engage in meaningful conversation when grandparents are present |
8 | Set up “grandparent dates” where a child and grandparent can spend quality time together |
9 | Look through old photos. These will spark memories and lead to stories grandparents can share |
10 | Read books together and take turns choosing the books |
11 | Have a cousin club and schedule fun activities with just cousins and grandparents |
12 | Include grandparents in family vacations or weekend getaways |
13 | Play board games or card games together |
14 | Remind kids to always tell their grandparents “thank you,” and not to take gifts for granted |
15 | Invite grandparents to sporting events, performances or other activities that kids are participating in |
16 | Maintain communication between parents and grandparents about rules on things like sweets or screen time to avoid conflict or confusion |
17 | Document memories together by taking photos, making a mini album or writing about the experience |
18 | Try making an old family recipe together |
19 | Draw a picture of each other — and don’t worry about your lack of art skills! |
20 | Decorate for a holiday together using new and old items and traditions |
21 | Listen to each other’s favorite songs from different decades |
22 | Have a family competition and let grandparents be team captains |
23 | Call and share exciting news or happenings before posting on social media |
24 | Have a spa day together — daughter, mom and grandma getting manicures together! |
25 | Always remember to say “I love you!” |